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Share Your World Week 52

This is the last Share Your World of year.   Thanks Cee for the questions.

What’s your favorite ice-cream flavor?

Chocolate Mint without a doubt.   Magnum on a stick is my best.

If you were to treat yourself to the “finer things” what would you treat yourself to? 

I’ve always fantasised about having a lady’s maid to do my make-up, hair and nails. I find these tasks such a bother and I beauty appointments to the last minute when everything is already out of control.

Have you ever been drunk?

No – I am a social drinker and fussy about what and how much I have.   When the wine doesn’t taste good anymore I stop.

Complete this sentence: My favorite supposedly guilty pleasure is… 

People close to me are reading this!  I love it if there is nobody at home making demands on my time – is that a guilty pleasure?

Optional Bonus question:  What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up? 

I am grateful for my rural family with whom we have been staying over this busy festive season.  I am specially grateful for our middle daughter who has organised space for all 1o of us to stay, prepared all the meals, done her usual ‘farming’ chores and remained calm and cheerful throughout.   All this after the busiest and most stressful term of the school year.

Next week I am looking forward to more special time with the Rurals.

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Share Your World Week 50

Here are my answers to this week’s share your world week 50

What is your favorite smell? What memory does it remind you of?

There are a few smells that I like – freshly brewed coffee, meat cooking on a braai, blooming jasmine but the one that brings back memories is the fresh smell of the sea first thing in the morning as I cross the railway line to Fish Hoek  beach brings back memories of my childhood.

What type of pet do you have or want to have?

I have no pets at present but any cat of dog who enters my property is welcome.  We keep dog biscuits in the house for all the canine visitors – no fences in our neighbourhood.   I don’t like any caged pets.

Are you usually late, early, or right on time? 

I’m usually dead on time or slightly early.   Hardly ever late

For recharging, would you rather meditate, swim, walk, listen to music, write, read, yoga, qigong other?

All of the above but substitute an exercise routine with yoga and qigong.

Optional Bonus question:  What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up? 

I am grateful that my husband is getting his energy back after his heart surgery three months ago.   He has performed a lot of handyman chores this week and managed superbly.

 

I’m looking forward to having my daughter spend  few days this week.

 

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Share your world #47

This week’s  questions to Share your world #47 correlate to Thanksgiving Day in the USA.  We don’t celebrate this holiday in South Africa but I’m answering anyway.

What are you grateful for in regard to

Your home life?

My home life has changed a lot in the past two years.  From being the matriarch of an extended family to being just the two of us in our retirement home in Struisbaai.  I love that I’m no longer responsible for seeing that everyone has a hot meal at the end of each day, homework is done and pets are cared for and that all I have to worry about is the two of us.  We have never before lived alone just the two of us and now we are enjoying just that – the two of us and doing exactly as we please.

your family?

Well there’s nothing to beat family.  I’ve learned how important that is over the years but specially this year when I was far from home and had to deal with problems in a foreign language.  Whatsapp, Facebook and Email kept me in touch with my nearest and dearest.  I couldn’t have coped without their virtual support

Your blogging community

What can I say?  Meeting people from all over the world and finding so many things I have in common with them.  Finding people who read my blogs and comment on my life is humbling to say the least.  And I just love learning about others in far flung lands and hope to meet some of them in the flesh one day.

Your city or immediate area in which you live?

My friends and family can’t believe that I’m actually deliciously happy in my new environment. I’ve moved from the most beautiful city in the world – Cape Town – to the most beautiful village in the world – Struisbaai.  I grew up in Cape Town, had an amazing career and life there and now I’ve left it for a tiny place at the Southern Tip of Africa.  And I love it.  I love the freedom it gives me – no worries about the what the rest of the family are doing – it’s up to them now.   After 34 years of being an exended, blended family it’s now just my husband and me.  We can do what we want when we want.  We can take off in our caravan and explore our country at the drop of a hat. And our holiday home is slowly becoming the perfect place that we want it to be

The regional area in which you live?

The regional area where I live is called The Overberg.   It is a region in South Africa to the east of Cape Town beyond the Hottentots-Holland mountains. It lies along the Western Cape Province’s south coast between the Cape Peninsula and the region known as the Garden Route in the east. The Overberg has rugged mountain ranges, fynbos, rolling wheat and canola fields, and splendid coastal vistas.   What’s not to love?

The country where you live?

There are problems in the country where I live.  But hey – where in the world aren’t there problems. I’m just grateful that I live in a land where I can still explore the wilds.  There is also hope here. We are the Rainbow Nation and although we have a long way to go, people in this country are trying to make it better.   We just have to hang in there.  Too many take the  ‘chicken run’ and leave to seek greener pastures – then they find that it’s not so great away from their homeland and some come back to make a difference – and they do.

You?

I have to confess that at my age – it’s my 64th birthday tomorrow – I am selfish.  I love my life and do everything I can to make sure I live each day that’s left to the fullest. Yes, I try to help others but my priority is to enjoy myself, to see as much of the world as I can, and to live each day as if it’s my last because just maybe it is.

To quote the Beatles – Will you still need me, will you still feed me, when I’m sixty four?

I think I can count on my husband to give a resounding yes to that!

Bonus question:  What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up? 

I am so grateful for Willie who is landscaping my garden and helping revamp certain rooms in my house. I am also grateful that my hubby is convalescing amazingly well and is almost back to his old self

Next week I am looking forward to seeing the fixing up of our daughter’s new house complete.  Life is good.

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Share your World #Week 46

Here are my answers to Share Your World #Week 46

Are you a traveler or a homebody? 

I am a traveler and use my home in Struisbaai as a base although I love it there too!  Most of my travelling is done within South Africa and mainly to places where the game roam free.

What kind of TV commercial would you like to make? Describe it.

I would like to make a TV commercial encouraging parents to make reading to their children a bedtime ritual – there are so many benefits to this – special bonding time, improving vocabulary, creating a love for reading. Too any parents thing having children read to them for homework is what creates a good reader.  They are wrong – it’s the other way round.

Describe yourself in a word that starts with the first letter of your name.

Here are a few –   Happy, hopeful, hilarious, hip, honest, hungry for adventure.

List some fun things for a rainy day.

Definitely not playing board games.  Snuggling up with a good book, blogging, reading blogs or watching a good movie.

Bonus question:  What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

We have sold our family home in Cape Town and were there to pack up last week.  I am grateful that most of the junk has been sorted and moved off to places where it will be put to good use.   Our much loved and very old piano has gone to a little girl who is beginning lessons next year and this really makes me happy.

I am also grateful that we have found somebody to landscape our garden in Struisbaai – The rockery is done and I just love it!

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The Cape Francolin also likes the new rockery

Next week will require another trip to Cape Town – I am sure I’ll be grateful for what is achieved there but I am not looking forward to going back so soon!

 

 

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Share your World #45

Here are my answers to this weeks Share your world challenge.

Describe your own outlook on life in seven words or less.

Life’s too short to bother with negativity.

Where do you like to vacation?

This is an easy one – I love to travel – anywhere that will give me a new and interesting experience.

BUT no place gives me more joy than an African Game Reserve. My whole being changes when I’m in the bush and getting back to nature.

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An African Sunset

Candy factories (sweets or treats including chocolate) of the entire world have become one and will now be making only one kind of candy. Which kind, if you were calling the shots?

Chocolate – any chocolate.

Complete this sentence: Something that anyone can do that will guarantee my smile is… to ask me to join them on safari!

Bonus question:  What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

I am grateful that we’ve managed to get contractors in to fix up our daughter’s new home and it will be done before her move at the end of the month.

I’m looking forward to returning to our home in Struisbaai as the weather is warming up and I want to start my morning swims and walks!

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Struisbaai Beach

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Share your world Week 44

Sorry that I haven’t participated for a while – have not read or written blogs for a few months due to travel and other time consuming stuff.  I am now trying to get back into it.

What was your favorite subject in school?

I loved English – even Grammar which seemed to be a problem for most kids but I found it quite logical.

If you could have a servant come to your house every day for two hours, what would you have them do?

I am used to help in the home but since retiring I’ve taken to doing my own housework.   Cleaning windows is the worst chore so that is what I’d want done at least once a month. Other chores would include cleaning the bathroom and kitchen and and mopping my tiled floors.

Where did you live when you were in the third grade of school?  Is it the same place or town you live now?

I lived in a delightful suburb of Cape Town called Fish Hoek and I lived there or not far from there for most of my life.  In those early days it was a sleepy seaside village when children were free to play unsupervised and the beach and the mountain were our playgrounds. It is still a delightful place but more built up and the traffic is a nightmare.

And now I live in another sleepy seaside place at the southern tip of Africa. It is called Struisbaai and I love it.

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Fish Hoek Beach in the sixties

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The beach is still there!   This is the upgraded Jager’s Walk

In your opinion, list some places that are great for shopping?

Paris of course. But seriously when I am in Cape Town I head straight to Woolworths. At home in Struisbaai I love the little shops we have in our tiny mall and our main business area.  In spite of it being a small town most of our needs are met and we like to support local business where possible.  And then there’s Bredasdorp 30km away. Once again you are assured of friendly and helpful service from the owners of the stores themselves.

Bonus question:  What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

I am grateful that my husband is returning to good health.

I look forward to finishing packing up the Cape Town home we’ve just sold.

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Share Your World #29

Here are my answers to this week’s share your world

What is the perfect pizza?

My favourite pizza is never on the menu of most pizza places but I’ve seldom had a problem having them make it up for me. I call it a Greek Pizza – the toppings are fetta, olives, spinach and avo – delicious.

What is your favorite time of day?

I am a morning person but now that I’m retired I don’t get up early in winter! Summer is a different story – I love an early morning walk and swim on the beach.

When in the bush mornings are the best time to get those stunning sunrises and to catch the early activity of the birds and game.

Show us two of your favorites photographs?  The photos can be from anytime in your life span.  Explain why they are your favorite.

The first photograph is precious because it shows all four grandkids really enjoying each other’s company.  It was taken in 2014 when we were all together in Struisbaai.

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The next one is special for a similar reason but here they are under the milkwood tree with their precious grandfather – and they’re all smiling at the same time!

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Complete this sentence:  I’m looking forward to…. 

our trip to Italy!

Bonus question:  What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

 It was wonderful having my grandson, Jay and his friends stay with us for a few days and I’m grateful that he doesn’t think he is too old to show affection to his gran in front of his mates.

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The boys dwarfing Granny!

I have come down with diverticulitis this week and look forward to getting over it quickly!

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Share your World #28

Here are my answers to this week’s Share your World questions.

What is your earliest memory?

I am always intrigued by what sticks in my mind and what doesn’t.   I forget what I did yesterday but my memories from before I was four are still there!  In my earliest memory I am three years old.  Big Brother is already at school. He is six.  I am holding Mommy’s hand and she is pushing Little Sister in her push chair.  She is one.  We are meeting Big Brother who is walking home from school.  I have no idea why this memory sticks – nothing significant happens but I remember my brother looking very pleased with himself while I feel a tad jealous that I am not big enough to be at this important place called school.   Other memories from this time in the southern suburbs of Johannesburg are vivid.  Sitting on the pavement with our nanny Siena – she chatted to other nannies while we played with their young charges.  The gold mine dump near our house, the
“bumpy” road we took as a shortcut to the main road that took us to wherever we were going, our enormous garden with its very long driveway and extremely tall trees – my first bird call memory  is of the turtle doves calling at sunset. We left this house to live in Cape Town when I was five. I returned with my brother when we were in our thirties. He had not been there since he was 8 but he found the house without a hiccup.   I couldn’t believe how the garden, trees and driveway had shrunk over the years!

I do remember one significant thing –  I am standing in the dark street with my father (and mom and siblings) He is pointing to a moving star in the Sky- “That’s Sputnik,” – he said, “One day they’ll put a man into space!” That would have been in October 1957 and I was not yet five years old.

What was the last photo you took with your phone?

I don’t often take photos with my phone but if I see something interesting on my walk I like to show my hubby a proof shot. The last one was of a pair of rock kestrels but they’re too blurred to show here.  Instead I will post one of harbour. I can never resist photographing  it.

Struisbaai Harbour phone pic

Struisbaai on a still, winter’s day.

Have you ever danced in the rain?

I can’t believe I haven’t because I have danced in the oddest places at inappropriate times but I don’t remember any dancing in the rain incidents.

What is the longest you have gone without sleep?

More than 24 hours.  It was the last day of college.   I was in a residence called Lincoln at Grahamstown Training College.  We came from all over the country and had been together for three years. Now we were dispersing to different parts of the country and didn’t know when or if we would ever see each other again.   We stayed up all night to get the very last of each other. The next day there was a final chapel service and we sang, “God be with you till we meet again”  Well, the refrain, “till we meet at Jesus Feet” set me off and I couldn’t stop crying.   A fellow student gave me a lift from Grahamstown to Port Elizabeth where I boarded a plane to Cape Town and I cried all the way in the car and on the plane.  Of course, it was the lack of sleep the amplified all this emotion.   I had just calmed down before deplaning and was ready to meet my father with a smile – but as soon as I saw him – I burst into tears again!   However, it didn’t take long for me to get over it and enjoy the next phase of my life!

Bonus question:  What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up? 

I am grateful that the cupboards are complete, the workshop is painted, the bunk room is tidy, the burglar alarm is installed and all that is left is for the burglar bars to be fitted.

I am looking forward to my grandson and three of his friends arriving tomorrow for a five-day visit.   We used to bring the boys and their friends for holidays to Struisbaai when they were kids – now they’re old enough to drive themselves here!

 

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Share your world #26

Here are my answers to this week’s share your world questions

What’s your most memorable (good or bad) airplane flight?

I was 7 months pregnant and flying from Durban to Cape Town when suddenly we hit some horrific turbulence.  The seat belt lights went on and the aircraft made the most frightening noises as it adjusted the pressure in the cabin.   It felt like the plane was dropping thousands of metres then rising up again.  I was terrified. Everybody on the plane remained uncanningly calm. My friend, Peggy, was with me and she agreed that she’d never had such a scary flight before.  Luckily nothing happened but for many years after that I was terrified of flying.  Years later I found myself stuck at the top of the Alps in a ski lift.  The view was amazing and I didn’t have the slightest fear – although my legs were dangling thousands of metres above the ground with only a bar across my middle to protect me from falling out.  Why then was I afraid of of flying?  It put things in perspective and I was less nervous on an aircraft after that.

Recently I was once again on a scary flight.  This time it was from Cape Town to Durban when we ran into a storm.  It was dark and the sky was split with lightning.  The plane shook and I turned to my husband and said, “I’m not scared – if we die now it will be okay – I’ve lived a good life!” The whole plane was restless and children were crying.   The pilot had to land in this treacherous weather and it turned out to be the smoothest landing I’ve ever experienced. As we touched down the whole plane broke into spontaneous applause.

The flight attendant came over the speaker with the words, “Give that man a Bells”

(This is a quote from a commercial for Bell’s Whisky.  When a heroic deed is done the punch line is – “Give that man a Bells.”)

How many bones, if any, have you broken?

I broke my foot by landing badly doing high jump in Grade 8.  Got me out of athletics for the rest of the year.

When I was 19 I worked as a volunteer camp counsellor.  There were strict rules about leaving the camp at night but some of the other counsellors and I snuck out for coffee at a nearby restaurant.  On our way back some boys bothered us so we ran – I fell down an embankment and broke my leg.  My friends helped me back to camp and we snuck back in.  I spent the night in pain but had to confess the next morning.  The leader was more sympathetic than angry and I was dispatched to the hospital to have it set.  It ruined the rest of my summer holiday!

If you had your own talk show, who would your first three guests be? (guest can be dead, alive, famous or someone you just know)

Helen Keller – She was deaf and blind but could talk – I find her story fascinating.

The late Duchess of Windsor – What was her secret?  How did she captivate a king so much that he gave up the throne for her?

Barbara Streisand – my favourite female singer and actress.  Just love her music and her movies.

Make a Currently List: What are you reading, watching, listening to, eating, needing, wanting, and missing right now?

Reading: The Cleaner of Chartres by Salley Vickers

Watching:  Tennis at Wimbledon

Listening To: Cape Talk – now that I can get it on DSTV

Eating:  Soups and stews in this cold wintry weather – Oxtail cooked by Hubby – delicious.  Breakfasts at Shipwreck Cafe at least once a week!

Needing: I’m presently living a charmed life -so don’t really need anything.

Wanting: I want a new pair of jeans – actually three pairs – black, blue and white.  But I don’t need them!  Also a white shirt.   I’m planning to shop in London in August.

Missing:  I miss my mother. She often turns up in my dreams and I will miss her forever.

Bonus question:  What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up? 

The weather here has been freezing so I am grateful for the gas heater.

I am looking forward to spending this weekend with my kids who turned up to surprise Dad/Grandpa for his birthday today.

 

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Share your world #25

Here are my answers to Cee’s Share you world Week 25

How many languages do you you speak?

English is my Home Language. Most English speakers are lazy about learning other languages as no matter where you go in the world you can almost always find somebody who knows English.  But I like languages.   I speak my second language, Afrikaans, fairly proficiently.   Now that I live in a community that is 90% Afrikaans speaking I am becoming even better.   I will soon be spending two months in Italy so have begun a Duolingo online course in that language and I’m loving it.

My father was Greek but all I ever learned in that language was a few greetings, to count and to swear!

What are some words that just make you smile?

 

Stunning, super and fabulous are words I use a lot and I guess they make me smile. A sentence that would make me smile – We’re going to Kruger!

If you were the original architect of one existing building, which building would you select?

When I was in Australia I couldn’t get enough of the Sydney Opera House – so I guess it would be that one!

Would you rather have telepathy or telekinesis?  (Telepathy is the communication using your brain waves, telekinesis is channeling the energy onto physical objects to cause substantial, observable physical changes.)

Telepathy – My husband thinks I already have it and can’t understand why I don’t know what he wants before he asks.

Bonus question:  What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up? 

I am grateful for an amazing week with friends visiting us and the fun we had birdwatching and exploring the area of the Southern Tip of Africa.

Next week I am looking forward to a quick visit to Cape Town to collect my British Visa and to collect my repaired car.  Also I am anticipating that all alterations here is Struisbaai will be complete!

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Share your World #23

Here are my answers to Cee’s questions for this week.

What was one of your first moneymaking jobs (other than babysitting or newspaper delivery)?

I had only three student jobs before I graduated with my Teachers’ Diploma. The first was at a bakery on Saturday mornings – it was hectic and I was paid R2.00.  I was 16 years old and only did it for a few months.  After that I had a vacation job in an office in the city.  It was for three weeks and the experience was awesome.  The permanent staff in the office were so interesting and I learned a lot about life from them – perhaps more than was age appropriate!  Then at age 17 I had a vacation job at the local hospital as a Nurse Aid.   Well!  That was an even bigger experience – It was very hard work – making perfect hospital beds, emptying bed pans, doing bed baths, dealing with vomiting patients and the highlight – watching the birth of a baby!

My first real job was as an itinerant Speech Correction Teacher – and from then on a very chequered career in teaching – I don’t regret a second.

What is your favorite month of the year?

I would rather answer this as my favourite season of the year – Autumn/Fall.   Here in the Western Cape this is the most beautiful time of year.  The weather is changeable but in a good year May/June produces windless, sunny days that are neither too hot nor too cold.   It’s the stillness that I love – the clear days when the sea is a calm as a millpond and it is a delight to sit in the sun and drink in the fresh air.  I just love it.

What three things in nature do you find most beautiful?

Birds, the bush and the sea. Birds are all around us – they sound wonderful, they look beautiful and they fill me with joy.  The Bush in South Africa is amazing – my spirit is renewed every time I enter a wildlife park and experience the isolation and wonder of the wild.  The Sea – ever changing and dramatic – who can live without it.

List at least five of your favorite spices? (excluding salt and pepper)

Garlic, origanum, Ina Paarman Rosemary and Olive, Basil, ginger, cinnamon.

Bonus question:  What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up? 

I am grateful that the process of applying for a UK Visitor’s Visa is over – what an intense and expensive experience – Schengen was so much more pleasant. I have the latter – hopefully the former is as successful. Travel for South Africans is complicated!

I am looking forward to a week of getting our Struisbaai home into shape – the extensions are complete and the new cupboards almost all done.  Now for the final decorating!

 

 

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Share your world Week 21

I have been neglecting my blogging for the past fortnight but I have an excuse!  There is a lot happening in my life right now.  Now that I’m retired I tend to go with the flow and don’t stick to a routine but just let things happen as they crop up.  This is fine some of the time but it does mean that I forget things that I am supposed to be doing – like I forgot a dinner date with a very dear friend – that is inexcusable – So sorry, Chantal!

 

We have a wonderful life here at the southern tip of Africa but because we are planning a trip to Italy we had to go to Cape Town to sort out our Schengen Visas.  I went ahead of Hubby and excavated the junk from our family home in Sun Valley.  Thanks to Romilla for taking a lot of it for the charity for which she works!  Hubby joined me on Monday and on Wednesday we went to Capago to do the Visa thing.   Because we are are doing renovations to our Struisbaai home he was itching to get back so after packing the Land Rover to the hilt we hit the road for home at 11 am this morning.   I had caught up with friends while there and last night we met up with folk we will be travelling to Kruger with in October – such a stunning evening.

And now I must get back to the Blog – I will start with answering Cee’s lovely questions on Share your World.

What is your favorite go to beverage?  Water, coffee, tea, coke, soda (non-alcoholic)

Yes – I am a coffee addict – but I don’t overdo the coffee thing otherwise I would never sleep!  I love my coffee – it has to be hot, strong and black – strong – but not too bitter because I don’t take sugar 0r milk to disguise the taste – so you see a good barrister is important here.  I judge a restaurant by the quality of its coffee – not its food!

Having said all this I also enjoy a good cup of rooibos tea.  Recently I have tried a Rooibos Chai – delicious.  My Indian friend, Romilla says I mush have it with milk – but I don’t do milk so I take it black = but I am thinking of trying it with milk.

I avoid fizzy drinks but Coke I use medicinally if I or my family have upset stomachs- but it must be the original recipe made with sugar – not corn syrup.   Believe me this is not psychological – it really works.


– Can you change a car tire?

Absolutely not! – That’s why I married a man with a plan.   A very handy man he is and he is able to get me out of a thousand different scrapes.  I like to think that I am a Feminist but I’m not -I like a hero to come around and rescue me from my plight – if my man with a plan is not about I’ll call someone else!

Are you a listener or talker?

I like to think that I am both!  I love to listen to people with something to say!  I can listen to Romilla for hours – she has such wonderful stories of a culture different to my own and i find this fascinating.   I do listen to people’s problems but then I like to fix them.  Not a good idea -a sounding board is all they need – a sympathetic ear and somebody who cares – not somebody who thinks she has all the answers to the world’s problems.

I talk a lot and hope that the listener is interested!

Would you rather have no internet or no cell phone?

I wouldn’t choose to be without either but if I have to choose the cell phone would go – I often don’t even know where  mine is!   My generation I believe are digital aliens while the younger generation are digital citizens.

I am enormously grateful for the internet and couldn’t imagine life without it.  What on earth did we do before it became an essential in our lives.   I love modern technology – the aps and the readily available information  most of which is free!   Right now I am grateful for Duolingo which is teaching me Italian.

Bonus question:  What are you grateful for from last week, and what are you looking forward to in the week coming up?

There is just so much that I am grateful for – Meeting up with old friends last week made me so happy and delighted that I still have them in my life.  I am also so grateful that I have my health and the energy to excavate the junk from my family home.   I am grateful for stunning kids and grandkids.   I am grateful for the funds to travel to distant lands and for still having a sound enough mind to enjoy learning a new language.

I am looking forward to rearranging things in my home in Struisbaai! Our renovations are nearly complete – I have brought things from Cape Town to help redecorate in Struisbaai and it’s going to be fun sorting everything out.